You’re not asking for much, not even necessarily 8 hours. You just want to get your baby to show some sign of a sleep schedule or nap long enough that’ll allow you to brush your teeth.
Babies go through a lot of changes and their sleep habits are one of them. Some babies can be thrown off their routines even with a minor discomfort. Learning your 9 week old baby’s sleep habits and then trying to set new ones can be tough.
In this article, we’ll talk about possible reasons why your baby isn’t sleeping, how a routine could help, and some other tips that I’ve used in helping my baby fall asleep and stay asleep.
Why Your Baby Isn’t Sleeping?
There are a few reasons why your baby isn’t able to calm itself enough to fall asleep or stay asleep. One could be because they’re overstimulated or over tired. Unfortunately being too tired doesn’t mean they’ll fall asleep faster and stay asleep longer. It’s actually quite the opposite.
It’s important to watch your baby and pick up on the cues as to when they’re getting tired or overstimulated with a toy/environment. Some of these signs could be pushing the toy away, rubbing their eyes, arching their back, or even turning their body away from you or the toy.
A growth spurt can be another reason why your baby isn’t able to get settled enough to sleep. Typically growth spurts happen around 4-6 week but that doesn’t mean that timeline happens for every baby. My Little One had a growth spurt around 8 or 9 weeks.
During my baby’s growth spurt she was uncomfortable and as you know by now, if your baby isn’t comfortable they’re not happy. So getting her to relax and sleep wasn’t an easy task. To help her get through it, I fed her a lot. Nursing is a naturally soothing act for your baby and it provides them with more food and nutrients for their growing body.
[ Read: How To Deal With 6 Month Old Sleep Regression]
The Wonder Week
Another reason your baby isn’t falling asleep could be that they’re going through what is called “The Wonder Weeks”. According to a study, they found that during a baby’s first 20 months of life, they’ll go through 10 different ‘fussy stages’ or sleep regressions. All of them can be set to milestones of development and can even be predicted.
Around 8-9 weeks your baby might begin a Wonder Week in which they’re discovering patterns. For example, repeating a certain sound or moving their hand the same way over and over.They’re learning that repetition equals a pattern. This newly discovered action could last through week 10 and can cause a disruption in sleep due to all of the curiosity that comes with learning something new.
Getting On A Schedule
So how long does a 9 week old baby sleep? Around this time they’ll start regulating their day/night schedule so that there’s more time spent asleep at night rather than during the day. Which means they’ll start sleeping about 5 or more hours at a time at night, and taking about 3 longer naps during the day.
When you notice your baby giving you cues (mentioned above) that they’re getting tired you want to reduce the stimulation around them. Lower the sounds of the TV or dim the lights, and remove the toy they’re playing with. Creating a calm environment is a good way to let your baby know that it’s time to relax and get ready for sleep.
When getting your baby ready for bed, you want to keep them on a routine. At bedtime, a bath is a good start to your routine because it’ll help relax your baby and prepare them for bed. You can do a feeding, bedtime story or nursery rhyme, then one last diaper change before goodnight kisses.
It’ll also help if you keep the lights dimmed, read or sing in a softer tone, and not introduce anything new or exciting to them. Using non-stimulating activities before bed will keep your baby from getting excited and curious before bedtime.
Tips For Successful Sleep
Here are a few other tips that will set you and your baby up for success:
[ Read: Guidelines To Ensure That Babies Sleep Safely ]
Whether your baby is overstimulated, going through a growth spurt, or a Wonder Week, you want to make sure that you’re consistent and starting a routine for sleep. This will help your baby begin to transition into a nighttime routine which will help them sleep more hours throughout the night.
Using the tips that are laid out in this article are some that I found most helpful when getting my 9 week old to sleep. I hope they’re just as useful for you.
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